The relationship of co-dependence in inter-personal!

The relationship of co-dependence in inter-personal!

I’ve gutted in previous posts the causes and contributing factors of our systems is to relate them private, public or professional, from the fact that our own emotional failings, our inner child and inner courts are an integral part of our ego structure , which then is basically the image, consciously or not, what we really are.

It is then easy to demonstrate the complexity of a person’s mental, looking at his posture and listening carefully to the rituals of the exposure of their psycho-drama and narrative of his micro-worlds. How to apply sub-conscious of affection and attention, are clearly apparent in the expression, not only postural, but also in daily inter-procedural relational dynamics, often without realizing it.

But I think the procedure more wrong in inter-personal relationships is given by the co-dependency means the need of the other almost in the style abnegativo though. Taking as an example in the study of inter-personal intimate relationship evincerà that is often mistaken for “love”, his need to compensate for their lack of emotional and social response, expiring in the famous sentence, I need you. The need is obliteration of the self and personality, if you project the partners’ expectations of counseling likely to find comfort and protection. It follows, therefore a relationship of love false, tending to co-.dipendenza, nullifying the possibility of inner growth and torque, or better described, is to miss the opportunity to maintain their own though, lowering the guard the ego structure, allowing yourself adequate growth, and allowing the pair to be equal a whole, only in the evolution of the pair.

In order to level the man or woman mired in an equal co-dependency, it is necessary to primarily made conscious to himself and takes the road of re-appropriated of his figure and his inner psycho-emotional balance and stability.