The basic rules of judgment in interpersonal relationships-

The basic rules of judgment in interpersonal relationships-

It would be a good idea of delivering the first lapidary judgments, out mentally from the superficiality of clichés and the pre-concepts, carefully study the event / events of the socio-environmental behavior created, analyzed as a whole our partner / friend / colleague / from a customer point of view of intellectual-social-environmental-professional drawing a psychological profile globally, taking away from what our projections and expectations, properly calculating the dynamics / interpersonal mechanisms of both the specific situation that has arisen over time.

Of course we have a thorough knowledge of their mutual differences ideological, spiritual and everyday life, snatching the possible level of tolerance and acceptance.

Often, especially in romantic relationships, there is a recurrence of resistance evolution in pairs, because unfortunately we tend to desire to change their partners in their own image and likeness, and, in more difficult cases is exchanged for love or friendship, the natural to project their own insecurities-fears-anxieties towards the partner, in fact, seriously encroaching on our inner capacity for judgment and personal, creating only serious misunderstandings that often lead to absurd arguments.

In extreme cases, but in daily practice, we see, in addition all’evidenziato above, a mixture of judgments peciosa uni-lateral inter-personal, based on membership in social castes, religious or ideological, which make difficult any capacity judgment completely uncut and impartial, free from “partigianismi”.

Certainly the first would be useful to judge for ourselves, as a great act of humility and integrity to ourselves, ask appropriate examination of conscience on our own lives and behavior had, for the series cast the first pity him who is without sin.